Here is something that I just read that may bless you.
Author unknown
Is there no other way open, God
Except through sorrow, pain, and loss,
To stamp Christ’s likeness on my soul-
No other way except the Cross?
And then a voice stills all my soul
As stilled the waves of Galilee,
“Can’st though not bear the furnace heat
If midst the flames I walk with thee?
“I bore the Cross. I know its weight.
I drank the cup I hold for thee.
Can’st thought not follow where I lead?
I’ll give thee strength. Lean hard on Me.”
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